People do not realize that spirituality is a creation and it is a creation of your own. It is not that you are creating something new in spirituality itself. Most people want to be followers of some sort. They are looking for their "spiritual path" outside of themselves. They usually find what someone else has done and copy it, then claim it is their own.
We are all set at the beginning of this life and there is no path until someone has created one. So the choice is, are you following someone else’s path or are you creating your own?
These people who are coming to you are looking for someone who has already carved a path that they “like” to follow. That “blends” with them. That is as easy or hard as the journey is supposed to be that they like this path. Or they will follow what you have led them to until it gets too hard or too easy. And then when it’s no longer the way they imagined it was supposed to be they will change paths because they have to find the way that’s really for them. And, “This way isn’t for me. It’s your way.” Well, no shit. You followed my macheted path, you idiot. Of course it’s my path.
This is a big piece with this person and probably most for a while that you will be encountering. – understand that somebody has to bring them. Not everybody’s going to bring the ice; somebody’s got to bring the food – or vice-versa. Somebody has to say, “Hey, it’s over here.” And they have to get it and go off. As much as it may seem not fun, or a perspective, somebody has to do it, they have to get connected somewhere.